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How to Find that Special Someone in Cyberspace Looking for love in all the wrong places? Try Cyberspace Relationships are often like grapefruits. First you have to break through the skin; then it takes a couple of bites to get used to the taste, and just as you begin to enjoy it, there's a chance that you'll get squirted in the eye. Relationships, like everything else in life are about taking chances and in order to get into a relationship, first you have to enter the wonderful world of dating. However, if you've been looking for love in all the wrong places, you may want to try looking for it in cyberspace. I can't guarantee that you'll find the love of your life, but I can guarantee that you'll have a most interesting journey looking for it. With the advent of online dating - people from around the world can now find that special someone without being limited by such mundane boundaries as states or even countries. Unfortunately, there is a stigma (although some say unfounded) attached to online dating. It's the same stigma that has been attached to personal ads for years - only losers need apply. But, the truth is although there is as much uncertainty connected to online dating as there was (and still is) with personal ads - it really isn't anything other than another vehicle to meet people. Lots of people (thousands upon thousands if you believe the numbers associated with these dating services) use online dating services. And with those numbers, one would have to assume that not all of these folks are losers. After-all, we've all read the fairy-tale like magazine articles about how someone met their "main squeeze" through a personal ad and ended up living happily ever after. Well, if you're still not convinced that people using online dating services are not all losers, than look at it this way. Internet studies have shown that most Internet users are college-educated professionals who can actually function in the real world and have a grasp of technology and communication. By this I don't mean techno weenies - just everyday people, with busy work schedules who may not have the time to go out to the local watering hole to meet other people. With an estimated 80+ million single people in the United States alone - it seems reasonable that the best way to connect to all these folks is through the Internet. The financial side of meeting someone online If you're still not impressed, look at the financial side of meeting someone online. It's cheaper than hanging out in a bar and spending all your hard-earned income on libations when all you're really there for is to meet someone. And, you don't have to get dressed up (clothes cost money) and bribe two of your friends with a free dinner (more money) to go along with you. You can do it your jammies, free of charge in the privacy of your own home! And, you don't even have to invite your friends over ! One of the major advantages of meeting someone online is that your correspondence is through electronic mail and you have quite a bit of time to screen information about the person you are communicating with before actually meeting them. Unlike on a blind date where you spend the evening Cheap Links of London Charms being a nervous wreck and never finding out anything about the person sitting across the table from you because you don't want to sound like you're taking a deposition. Another big advantage is the pool of possibilities - there are more fish in cyberspace than at your local watering hole. And, finally if nothing else, it can be a good way to just meet a few new friends or a new tennis partner. All online dating services require you to either fill out a form containing information such as likes, dislikes, hobbies, height, race, weight, hair color, etc. or to write a profile about yourself. Of course the downside is you can write anything you like - even if it isn't true. You can even lie about your gender, age, sexual preference and marital status. So, with those disadvantages in mind never, ever put personal information like your last name, address, telephone number or real e-mail address in a profile. No one ever said that college educated professionals can't be serial killers. Look at Ted Bundy. He was a lawyer. Sound judgement, a certain amount of caution and basic instincts go a long way. To further protect online daters, many online dating services offer an anonymous e-mail service, which means that you never have to give out your personal e-mail address, as your mail goes directly to the service and they in turn e-mail your messages to you. 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Try a cafÈ where there are lots of other people but where you can have a cup of java and some pleasant "getting to know one another" conversation without screaming over the table. Take your own car and a cell phone. Decide a Cheap Thomas Sabo Rings beginning time for your encounter and an ending time. This way, if things go south you won't have to be uncomfortable for too long. If your online date doesn't like this arrangement, don't go. After all, there are lots of other fish in the vast sea of cyberspace. Don't be nervous, this could actually turn out to be fun. However, dating in general (and online dating specifically) requires a certain amount of good sense. So, before you go on your date make sure you pack a smile, a positive attitude, your best foot facing forward, a good listening ear, some caution and judgement, your cell phone, money, and your car keys. If you take all these things along with you, at the very least you will come away from your date with a memorable experience. And, if things go well maybe even the guy or gal of your dreams.